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5/02/2019 #07

Good Evening peeps

When I was growing up, Lol am yet growing , I had a lot of opinions about what other people needed to change.

“Why can’t people stop littering any where they feel like?” “Why can’t people stop spitting on the wall?” “Why can’t so-and-so stop being so annoying?”


I started realizing that as I focused on all of the things that others needed to do in this world, I was forgetting that i do have my own flaws and failures and the annoying moments. I used to be very annoying to so many people and the reason was, I liked asking questions and was always keen to know about everything.

 Jacob M. Braude has said in his quote that reads, “Think about how hard it is to change yourself. Then maybe you will understand why it is impossible to change other people.”

I’ve realized that for a very long time, I’ve blamed other people for my circumstances; and maybe circumstances did have an impact in some ways. That job that didn’t work out, Yet i gave in my 100 %. Yes, they are part of who I am.

But the truth is that as I look back at my past, almost all of the instances in which I’ve had a conflict or something “bad” done to me by someone else, could have been avoided if I had taken responsibility. The recent places that i have worked , I have always given my 100% to whatever work or duties i used to get. In life when new challenges come up, it is on you to decide whether you want to take them up or just go on doing what you want.

The reason why i always wanted to learn new things was because i had no degree or no educational back ground. But as soon as i started realizing that in 5 years that i worked for the previous company (cant say the name) Within no time i was having different departments, which were never related to my contract, Yes i got to learn a lot and it took me to a very different level of working, More into how to manage a business or run business.

I started asking my self am i being taken advantage of the works am being given??? I started questioning my self. As most of the time i used to be told off!!!! What ever good work i used to do my senior used to take the compliment and my hard work efforts would never reach to the boss.

So most of the time i was the bad person and when it comes to increment of salary i used to be told one thing only “what work are you doing that you need a increment????”.

But the struggle the shouting and the being told off, At that moment gave me anger. I always felt like telling them off and just quit the job. But then reminded me i have a family to take care off , And i just had to continue.

But as they say, When one door closes another one opens, And that’s what happen.I decided its high time now and i need to move. But after moving out i realized the pressure the shouting the stress made me strong and made me a different person on how to overcome stress and handle a management situation so THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!.

Sometimes it can feel like the life we want is impossible, always out of reach, and we’ll never get out of the stress or the situation. This is a big fat lie and I urge you to shift “I can’t” to “I can” (or at least “maybe it’s possible”) because you can not choose to end but you can choose to start.

doing something different. Even small changes toward your vision of success will start to show you some results. It’s a process and a practice. Keep going, one step at a time, in the direction that calls you.

Thank you if you liked it kindly do comment, If you want me to share anything kindly do let me know.

Love all 

Mehul Sutar 

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